Love in these days is dynamic. It is very difficult to know if someone truly loves you or not. Certain standards have been removed and new ones have been put in place to determine affection. But you still want to know if he loves you right? Right!
People show affection based on the personality of the individual. Men are different and so are their personalities and ways of expressing themselves. But there are some common signs that can tell if a man loves you. I call it the general Aura of love.
Things you would look out for;
“The best feeling is when you look at him and he is already staring.”-Anonymous
The way a man stares at the woman he loves, makes her understand how he truly feel. To him he is looking at the most beautiful person in the world. It may seem awkward, but lovely. Because he only sees you.
‘There must be a deep connection between you and me.’ She said. And I was lost in her eyes.” –Avijeet Das
The eyes are the window to one’s soul. When a man is constantly steering into your eyes, he is trying to connect to you. To connect to your very soul. He wants to communicate his every feeling, every thought to you.
“Disorder attracts attention.’ -Anonymous
A man would do many things to get a woman. But a man in love would do everything possible to make the woman he loves smile. Love makes a man put aside his pride. He would happily do things he wouldn’t normally do for anyone, just for you. Most men are clumsy when in love.
“A book without words is like love without a kiss; its empty.” –Andrew Wolfe.
Understanding a man’s words are important. You should be able to decipher his intentions towards you from the way he talks to you. A man that loves you will tell you.
“Love to me is someone telling me, ‘I want to be with you for the rest of my life and if you needed me to, I’d jump out of a plane for you.'” – Jenifer Lopez
What a man does, speaks of who he is. A man who is in love with you will show how much you mean to him. Yes, even if it means jumping out of a plane for you.
“I have a crush on your mind. I fell for your personality. Your looks are just a bonus.” –Nicholas sparks.
True love have to do with everything. Not about how curvy your body is or how pretty you look. He would adore your perfection and fall in love with your flaws. He would desire all of you, physical and abstract.
Everything about you will be beautiful to him. Even your insecurities; the stretch marks or baldness, as long as it is on you it is perfectly beautiful.
“We were together. I forget the rest.” –Walt Whiteman.
When he is with you, he puts you first. Other women would mean nothing to him. He might not remove them from his life completely, but you will be his number one.
As the number one woman in his heart, he would be concerned about your well being. How you feel in every way matters to him. He would always look out for you. Your dreams and goals will be a priority to him, he will go to any length to help you achieve them.
“I talk about you like you put stars in the sky” -Anonymous
When a man truly loves you, he won’t hide you. Everyone will know about you because he is telling them about how amazing you are. He will show you off to the people that matters most.
He will defend and protect you from the world. He will always fight for you. And won’t give up on you easily.
“Love is needing someone. Love is putting up with someone’s bad qualities because they somehow complete you”
Nobody is perfect. Not just anybody can tolerate your flaws. He would tolerate and love you unconditionally.
A man truly in love with you will always tell you the truth, good or bad. He will correct your wrong doings with love. Because he knows you are a good person, especially when the world sees no good in you. He would be there to advice, encourage and support you.
“If you live to be a hundred, i want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so i never have to live without you” –A. A. Milne
For me, the act of true love is wanting to be with someone for as long as you live. I see planning for ever with you, marriage is the only way to do that. He would dream of being with you and having kids with you. In marriage he would cherish what you built together.
It may not be all, there is more to know. You may not find all in one man. But deep down, you know when, where and what to look out for in a man.
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Originally posted 2020-04-27 12:45:00.