In the past few days News headlines in Nigeria have been dominated by reports of rape and gang-rape of young girls in some part of the country.
In fact, it is not out of place to say that there is a rape pandemic in the country and everyone is concerned and have been trying to invent ways to avoid rape and save ladies.
Nigerian celebrities have also joined the movement which is calling for an end to such abuse and rape of ladies by misguided men. Musician Tiwa Savage even announced through her Instagram handle that she visited the commissioner of police in Lagos state in company of some celebrities and had a meeting in which they recommended that ladies that have been abused or raped should call a hotline for immediate attention.
Other celebrities like Omotola Jelade Ekehinde, Tonto Dikeh, Iyabo Ojo, Toyin Abraham , Mercy Aigbe among s others have also condemned the raping of ladies in Nigeria and they called for urgent action. They seem to be saying that in order to avoid rape, it is only the social institutions like the police or some attitudinal change campaign that can help.
However, countries that have suffered a more alarming rate of rape and other gender based violence like India tried more radical ways to avoid rape and protect ladies. Such radical ways often involve empowering and enlightening ladies on what to do when faced with a rape situation.
Although ladies are called the weaker sex, they must take up the responsibility of protecting themselves against rape by all lawful means as a way to deter unguided men from considering such heinous act against ladies. Here are 7 things you can do as a lady when you are faced with a rape situation.
1. Scream as loud as you can.
Rapists often try to frighten their victim by threatening them with a gun or knife. If you yield to such threats they may still go ahead to inflict harm or even murder the victim. Some rape victims are even threatened from safe places into lonely places before they are raped.
2. Don’t be afraid.
The greatest weapon of the rapist is fear. Once that is taken away they are likely to fail in their mission. Never allow their threat to keep you short. When they observe that you are fearless, they are most likely to leave.
3. Fight and Struggle.
Resisting rape, according to an article in this month’s Cosmopolitan, is worthwhile and does not lead to further injury. The article cites a US study of 1.5m rape convictions over a decade which found that women who fought back tripled their chances of escape.
There is no such thing as a cool rape. All rapists intend to do some damage to your life either emotionally or physically so you must struggle and fight.
4. Use Pepper Spray.
In India were rape was at an alarming rate, ladies were empowered with pepper spray to defend themselves against rapist. Just like perfumes or sprays it can destabilize a rapist because most rapists do not always prepare for their crime and they leave behind lousy trails.
5. Inflict Pain on the Rapist.
You may not have any weapon on you but youth teeth and fingers can leave an unforgettable wound on an unarmed rapist. Don’t just keep calm and allow them inflict unforgettable pain into your life.
6. Never Shed Tears.
Contrary to what some ladies think, weeping and crying will fire the beast in a rapist. He is often threatened by your struggle and boldness not your tears. When you cry, you are only telling them that you are weak and that is what they really want from their victim.
7. When You Are Up Report the Rapist.
If a rapist have had his way with you, do not keep quiet about it. Quickly file a police report against the rapist. This will help protect other ladies from rape. Forget about the stigma that is attached to it and try to fight for yourself and the interest of others.
In conclusion, Anyone can be the target of sexual assault, regardless of age, gender, race, ethnicity, sexual orientation, sexual history, or social class. There is no stereotypical victim or rapist.
Nearly 85% of all victims of sexual assault knew the person who raped or assaulted them. Often a situation starts off innocent and fun, but can then very quickly escalate out of control.
What do you think ladies can do when faced with the ugly situation of rape? Please share your thought with us by leaving a comment in the comment section below. Also, do well to share this on your social media platforms to help enlighten a friend out there.
Originally posted 2020-06-05 08:26:47.